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| April 30, 2011 |
| 271 SANCTIONS Ordered Against PRO PER ATTORNEY - Lawyers Are Some of the Most Conflicted Parties to Matrimonial Litigation |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold, C.F.L.S. |
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I have recently been reflecting on the fact that in my experience, lawyers who are parties to family law litigation behave far worse than most people suffering through the emotional ravages of relationship breakup. There is something about being a lawyer that threatens, and for some tends, to transform us into bullies and petty tyrants.
Lawyers should be even more mindful than the average litigant about taking bad faith positions. Courts hold attorneys to a higher standard, as they should. Not only are they more likely to be monetarily sanctioned for abusive behaviors, attorneys may also find themselves the focus of a State Bar investigation that ends with discipline including suspension or disbarment - an accountability unique to being a member of the legal profession. Hence, attorney pro se litigants have a lot more to lose than the average disputant. Aside from their ethical obligation to be act better than the rest as "officers of the court," there are practical reasons why they should exercise restraint.
There is a trend among our California appellate courts to fix boundaries and impose consequences for all divorce litigants who engage in uncooperative and dishonest behavior in marital and partnership dissolutions. This is a good thing: As I urge in my Blogs, the family law system for resolving disputes isn't working because the participants often approach them with so much blind rage and reactivity that their conduct overburdens the courts' resources and are too often manifested in attempts to beat the other person into the ground by increasing costs unnecessarily, by misrepresenting information, and by playing "hide the ball." We teach our children to self-regulate their behaviors, but sometimes we can't seem to get a grip on our own. We don't want judges to act as through they were our parents, but people often force them to.
Marriage of Greenberg (April 28, 2011) 194 Cal.App.4th 1095
As if to emphasize this phenomena, the Second Appellate District out of Santa Barbara issued its decision in Marriage of Greenberg on April 28, 2011. Self-represented Attorney Robert Greenberg was sanctioned in the amount of $2,800 in attorney fees to be paid to his former spouse by a Ventura County trial court when he took a meritless position to justify his stubborn refusal to pay a court ordered equalization payment to her. The trial court found that he was not only not credible in identifying his income in opposing a spousal support request, but declared that he'd engaged in perjury about his earnings and expenses. Moreover, the argument he urged to avoid paying the equalization payment was one that "should not have been an issue in the first place."
Accordingly, per Family Code section 271 sanctions were upheld as entirely appropriate and within the trial court's discretion. But that is not what is striking about the court's decision - and indeed $2,800 for uncooperative and dishonest behavior in family litigation is a very light slap.
Mr. Greenberg was not satisfied to accept his lumps and move on; instead, he filed a frivolous appeal from that order. Because Wife had not filed any brief in opposition to Husband's appeal Husband dodged a second monetary sanctions' award - but he did not dodge the bullet. BTW, Husband may have believed that because Wife could not afford to hire an appellate lawyer, given that it makes little sense to pay $10,000 to defend a $2,800 judgment, he would win in effect by default - he was sorely mistaken, however, since appellate courts don't accept arguments as valid simply because they are unopposed.
The Court concludes its opinion with the following:
"The record on appeal does not show that the trial court reported husband to the State Bar. We order the clerk of this court to send a copy of this opinion affirming the trial court's order to the State Bar. Whether husband should be disciplined is addressed to the judgment of the State Bar and we express no opinion thereon."
I suspect the author of that final sentence was smiling when they wrote it. Given the citations to Mr. Greenberg's tactics in the appellate record, it is hard to imagine that he will not be sanctioned by the Bar in the near future. Ironically, if the trial court's perjury findings have not previously been brought to the attention of the State Bar, Mr. Greenberg's insistence on pursuing a frivolous appeal guarantees they now will be. This is a wonderful example of an obsessed divorce litigant completely 'blowing themselves up.'
Justice Yegan, J. for the Second Appellate District begins this strongly worded opinion with the sentences: "Abraham Lincoln once said, 'He who represents himself has a fool for a client.' Here, the client is an attorney who represented himself in the trial court. He now represents himself on appeal. He is unschooled in the basics of appellate law, suggesting that Lincoln's observation applies on appeal. We understand that emotions run high in family law litigation and that this may cloud the judgment of a party. But that does not excuse the filing of a 'creative' (i.e., misleading or incomplete or inaccurate) income and expense declaration; or perjury,..., or the filing of a frivolous appeal." [Italics added].
The decision ends with this dry and understated observation: "Husband, a pro per attorney, suffers from a lack of objectivity." This fact, universal in differing degrees for those who are ending relationships, is at the core of why family litigation is so distressing and expensive for everyone involved, and in need of a major retrofit. But in the meantime, trial courts are repeatedly being given the green light to reign in parties who act like errant children so long as their due process rights are duly protected. Along with Marriage of Tharp,
Marriage of Fong, and Marriage of Duris & Urbany,
Marriage of Greenberg constitutes a warning to all family law litigants that abusive conduct will not be countenanced.
Also, Greenberg is important as good authority for the proposition that unfounded legal positions at the trial court level are sanctionable under FC §271. It should be cited to any judge where you encounter difficulties with the other side that sound familiar here, including advocating meritless claims.
Divorce trance is strong stuff. It causes most people to lose their minds for a time, before they can regain some balance and equanimity. Some high conflict litigants seem to never regain their poise (if they ever had it), and lawyers as parties to matrimonial matters seem to personify some of the coarsest aspects of our lower natures. One of the benefits of hiring a seasoned attorney, even if you think you can otherwise represent yourself, is that they can guide you to act in ways that are less destructive than what your impulses demand. Good lawyers don't just perform the mechanics of divorce, they help to set the tone. Conversely, seeking out "aggressive" lawyers whose advice mirrors or panders to your inner tension assures that your experience of the divorce and of the courts will be all the more unpleasant and unsatisfactory - oh, and expensive too.
Do yourself a favor - don't imagine that family court is your stage for expressing your upset and rage. Throw tantrums and the consequences may be more painful than a "time-out."
Or consider a different tact, if you wish and if your limbic "lizard" brain will allow it. Fortunately, we have other areas that we can access with just a smidgeon of mindfulness.
Thurman W. Arnold, III, CFLS
A disclaimer:
Very few humans can behave impeccably every time, and I don't want to create an impression that I claim to be freed from all personal reactivity. My discussion is aimed at reminding you and I that we have two primary choices: 1) Get lost in the trance of resentment and within our busy minds, and so be persistently and stubbornly deprived of any real decision-making ability or 2) to increasingly gently and firmly restore and ground ourselves, and exercise the choice to suffer less rather than more by resisting the impulse to jump and scream when we feel threatened or angry. This latter possibility exists apart from all proclaimed external "causes" to our misery - and requires that we not respond in kind to the perceived insults and injustices that others may seek to inflict upon us.
Every day we enjoy a fresh chance to re-evaluate our direction and so to reset our conditioned negative momentums. Might succeeding one time in ten be better than the alternative?
When I am distressed but lucky, the mantra "stop..., clear..., reset" sometimes comes to my mind. And sometimes, hopefully more often than not, this works for me. Find your own mantra and save yourself from needless pain.
The opportunity for freedom resides within us, not without! Conversely stated, victims tend to choose to be.
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| April 29, 2011 |
| Local Businesses: Who Is the Best Audio/TV Specialist in Palm Springs? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Randy Bauer Audio and Video
760-776-8179
Serving Palm Springs, Palm Desert, and the Greater Coachella Valley
I enjoy supporting and promoting the best local businesses within the Coachella Valley that I have personal experience with, not just out of a sense of loyalty and gratitude but also in order to make it easier for potential customers (possibly like you) to find them - my expectation is that you will be equally satisfied with their work. I strive to provide something special and unique in my family law practice, and wish to honor others who are similarly inclined within the worlds of their own professional services. We all should try to do what we do as best as we can do it.
I have over five years experience using the services of Randy Bauer of Bauer Audio and Video - while I don't watch much TV (only recently getting a cable box once again), the quality of my sound system is really important to me.
Bauer Audio/Video has been managing my TV and music system since its installation in 2005 during a remodel (back in the day!); I've finally upgraded it a bit. Randy's devotion to customer satisfaction as well as fair pricing for his work has always impressed me but this last month I was watching and interacting with Randy, I was reminded about his high business ethics, expertise, and easy-going demeanor. He is the type of professional that I want to know about and so to recommend to others.
Randy specializes in home theatre installation, installing music systems in remodels, updating wiring infrastructure, and interfacing the internet with the most up to date audio and visual technologies.
Cheers!
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| April 19, 2011 |
| Are WORKER'S COMPENSATION BENEFITS Community Property? Yes and No! |
| Posted By Thurman W. Arnold, III |
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Q. Are worker's compensation benefits received during marriage community property and so subject to division in dissolution proceedings?
A. Some of it, at least.
Marriage of Ruiz (4/14/11) 194 Cal.App.4th 348
In the recently published Fourth Appellate case of Marriage of Ruiz out of Riverside County, the parties' marriage lasted 32 years - married in 1973 (not the summer of love), they separated in March, 2005. A major bone of contention was how to characterize Wife's lump-sum worker's comp settlement of $250,000 received several years before the breakup, which netted $172,364 after attorney fees and costs. Wife believed it was all hers in the absence of proof by Husband of what portion of the money she received should be allocated between compensation for loss of past income verses what portion was intended to compensate her for loss of future earning capacity. Not surprisingly if Husband indeed had the burden of proof on this issue, he was never going to meet it - worker's compensation awards and financial settlements relating to personal injuries are simply gross numbers that some insurance bean counter crunches and then offers a gross settlement to resolve. No one in Wife's work compensation team was thinking about a fixed amount that was intended to resolve temporary compensation benefits as opposed to wife's lifetime loss of income producing ability - these claims just don't get settled in that fashion. Hence, if Husband had the burden of proving an imaginary apportionment he would never be able to do so and Wife would take all.
This case illustrates what can happen where one party or another has the "burden of proof" on a particular issue - often this is a short hand way of saying "you lose."
Four years later their divorce proceedings resulted in a discretionary trial court finding that $103,033 of the award was CP, with a balance of $71,311 being Wife's separate property. This finding was upheld on appeal as a reasonable exercise of discretion by Judge Irma Poole Asberry.
Wife argued that despite the statutory community presumption per Family Code section 760 that property acquired during marriage belongs to the community, existing caselaw
(Raphael v. Bloomfield) (2003) 113 Cal.App.4th 617) required a conclusion that the award is community property only to the extent that it is
intended to compensate for the injured spouse's reduced income during the marriage and before separation, and for injury-related expenses that were paid with community funds. She urged that the remainder of an injured spouse's recovery is intended to compensate her for their diminished earning capacity and/or medical expenses which continue after the DOS.
Therefore, the Wife here argued that Raphael carved an exception to the rebuttable presumption that all property acquired during marriage is community property, instead creating a presumption that the award is the injured spouse's separate property. If true, this would impose the burden of proof as to allocation upon the noninjured spouse. Hence, she argued, if neither party could show evidence of how the award was calculated the party with the burden of proof would lose. The record on appeal was clear that neither party produced any evidence one way or the other because - frankly - there was and could be none.
Judge Asberry correctly declined to find that the general overriding FC § 760 presumption could be trumped by this supposed exception. Since Wife evidently concluded her best litigation strategy was not to offer any compromise solution for determining the competing community verses separate property interests, the court applied a formula suggested by Husband for apportioning the award as between CP and SP. Wife took and all or nothing position that was a high stakes gamble, and she lost. Interestingly, the decision is clear that had she suggested some other valuation method the trial court could have found that was more equitable than Husband's proposal instead, and it would not have been reversed.
Play hard ball, get slammed.
The rule reiterated by the Ruiz court is simple, fair, and obvious. It is already established that period disability
retirement payments which are received during marriage are community property, in that they are intended to compensate the community for loss of income that the injured spouse would otherwise have earned. Periodic disability payments received after separation are the separate property of the injured spouse alone for his or her diminished earning capacity. Citing the California Supreme Court in
Marriage of Jones (1975) 13 Cal.3d 457, the Riverside justices stated "[s]o long as the marriage subsists, the [injured spouse's] reduced earnings worked a loss to the community. But such community loss does not continue after dissolution; at that point the earnings or accumulations of each party are the separate property" of each. "[O]nly such payments as are received during marriage are community property."
But within the context of worker's compensation permanent disability awards, as was presented here, Raphael had concluded that the timing of the award (i.e., whether received before or after separation) should not dictate the outcome - instead the inquiry was what portion was intended to compensate the injured spouse for his/her reduced earnings during the marriage, which would be CP. Again, a question that is not likely to be answered by the non-injured spouse because they have no access to such information assuming it even was part of the settlement calculation; yet, this perhaps reasonably did suggest to Wife's attorney he might successfully argue that the burden of proof was hence placed upon the Husband.
The Ruiz Court decided that neither party had a burden of proof that would create a rebuttable presumption in the favor of one or the other because the trial court properly concluded that the award was part community and part separate property of Wife. The issue was then for the trial court to decide in terms of equitable apportionment of the competing interests. "In doing so, the court may use any method which fairly apportions the assets or its value between community and separate property interests. Because it is the court's
obligation to make an equitable apportionment, neither party has the burden of proof in the sense that a failure of proof will result in an award of the asset in its entirety to the other party."
Thus, in equitable apportionment cases involving disability awards, which includes all hybrid mixes of community/separate attributes, a disadvantaged party (here the Husband who could not marshal much less control the evidence of what the worker's comp carrier intended when it settled Wife's case) does not lose simply because of a failure of their access to proof. Instead trial courts are free to fashion any result which works substantial justice. This was fair because nothing indicated that Wife had received any temporary disability benefits during the marriage that got banked - this lump sum settlement was all that she apparently received for the total loss occasioned to her, and to the community, for the injuries she suffered.
To the extent that the Wife argued the trial court's division of the CP amounts vs. the SP amounts was arbitrary, she had no right to complain because she never suggested any other measure that the trial court might use in supporting a different allocation scheme.
So, the lesson is this: Play hardball, get slammed..... (mediate your disputes instead, and don't disconnect from reasonableness - one never knows how a court might rule!)
Thurman W. Arnold, III, C.F.L.S |
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| April 18, 2011 |
| Announcing Rattlesnake Season as Officially Open in Palm Springs!~ |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Greetings all -
For those of you who live in the desert cities of Southern California, including the Mojave Desert, I am pleased to announce that rattlesnake season has officially opened! Well, "pleased" might be an overstatement.
I live in a part of Palm Springs that fronts the San Jacinto Wilderness and San Gabriel mountains. Every year about this time I find those little slithery critters in my garage, on my porch, or am called to my neighbor's homes to help capture and relocate these little rep's, whom I hesitate to call invaders (I imagine that there is much discussion in rattlesnake warrens about the human invaders). They seem most active after five (cocktail hour?) or in the early mornings - hiker's and dogs beware (seriously, keep your dogs leashed - I know, I have a Jack Russell Terrorist)!
Why do my neighbors call me? They believe I won't get bitten (professional courtesy possibly?)
Truth be told, rattlesnakes are extremely passive creatures unless we are talking about the green mojave version, which is a rattlesnake on steroids. Fortunately the greens are not generally found in my locale. I've encountered them in Arizona (near Sedona) and was impressed by their aggressive behaviors. The local varieties just want to get along with us, but their timidity also makes them dangerous - it is easy not to spot one until you are upon it. Even then they will not go out of their way to strike. Many times I've been forced to wrangle one into a trash can or ice chest that is then carried a few hundred yards from the house and released, and rarely do they attempt to bite the pole that guides them into such receptacles.
I shouldn't need to state that killing them is not an option, and is an ignorant thing to do. However, much like the attack behaviors that people often reflexively engage in at the commencement of their divorce or partnership break-up, the limbic part of the brain does tend to go into reactive over-drive when surprised by one of these creatures.
If you cross paths with one, some recommendations are as follows:
- Secure your pets. Allowing your dog to watch you catch a snake will cause your animal to offer you unwanted assistance, and to encourage it to interact with the rattler the next time it finds one. Since snakes move slowly, many dogs will not notice them and so become deathly curious. However, if they learn that the scent of the snake means something to toy with then you've trained your dog to become a suicide bomber. This same point applies to children.
- Be alert this time of year. Scan the ground as you walk. If you are in the desert or on a trail, the obvious choice is to move on. If you are golfing, pay attention to the edges of the course where they front the desert. Do not poke at the snake, and do not toss stones or objects at it. Keep a healthy distance. Be attentive to insistent barks from your dog, as several years ago I heard Jake outside in the yard bark, bark, barking at something and after 5 or 10 minutes of this I finally got the message and found him several feet from a curled rattler. The first thing I did was grab my pup to carry him inside and closed off his ability to get back out until I'd carried the snake away outside of his view.
- Consider keeping your yard clear of debris or objects that make a good place for snakes to hide under or behind. I try to scan my yard visually as often as I can remember, and I want a clear view. I think one reason they like my garage, beside an easy entry under a door, is that rats and mice can sometimes be found there. Keep your ears open - rattlers are good at rattling. I've often heard them before seeing them, which is great if you like adrenaline rushes.
- If working in the yard, watch where you step and place your hands during this month window or so (and again in September/October). It is now breeding time, and the babies abound in the Fall. In the Palm Springs area the snakes tend to emerge with the first consistent hot weather usually beginning in late March and early April. I am on rattlesnake alert through May. They tend to become less frequently seen during the summer months, except in the early mornings or late evenings. I remember one camping trip in August to Organ Pipe in southern Arizona when I was taking pictures at dusk, only to suddenly notice there was a snake every fifteen feet or so (I slept outside on a cot that night, and awakened to observe a very large specimen 10 feet away crawling over a fallen saguaro - I was younger and more foolish then).
- If you find the snake some place where he is not only not welcome, but causes you a worry that unless he is transhipped elsewhere he will be lounging around, and assuming you are extremely cautious and not hyperventilating, capture him and carry him away if you are otherwise disposed to do so (i.e., not because I suggested this was a good idea). I use one of those extendable tree limb cutting poles with the large metal hook and the nearest deep container within reach - usually a trash can or ice chest with a lid, placed on its side as close to the snake as I can safely be (five feet). Rattlers want to get away from you and will wind their way into these, where they will coil at the bottom. With the pole I can hook the snake mid-body and drag it into the can. Better to avoid the snake altogether, but I'm not about to leave one in my garage or in the yard. At the same time, if you don't know what you are going to do and don't already have the tools to do it with, this may not be a good solution. Forget those nature shows where people capture rattlers and stick them in burlap bags. Never let your hands or feet closer than five feet or so (a rule I often break). Conventional wisdom says they can strike up to half their body length.
- Another option is to keep an eye on the critter and call someone for assistance.
- If you wrestle one into a container, resist the impulse to peer into it at close range.
- Now you have the problem of what to do with it. If you are in a residential area consider calling animal control. Don't put it on the back seat of your SUV for a trip to a safe unloading zone. In my case, I can walk a hundred yards or so and flip the box on its side and dump the snake out. I've yet to (knowingly) bump into the same snake again.
Now, rattlesnakes are really common in areas that are rocky or abut the desert. Around Palm Springs these areas include Chino Hills, the Mesa, Araby, and south Palm Springs around the Canyon Country Club. Expect to encounter one at almost anytime now in the Indian Canyons. You are not nearly as likely to see one in a highly residential area. But if you live on the edge of the desert, sooner or later you will meet one close up.
Here is yesterday's round-up (found inside my neighbor's house):
Okay, this little guy looks just like the granite rocks and yellow weeds
that dot the local landscape -
here's a closer look:
Yesterday (4/16/11)
Other Rattlers I've Met -
2010 Garage
Move-Away from Neighbor's House 2009
And Surrounding Environs 2007
And some I've not met,...
~ Be careful out there and protect your pets! (And bathe them too!) ~
Jake Arnold
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| April 11, 2011 |
| San Diego Trial Court REVERSED for Failing to Exercise An "INFORMED DISCRETION" in Refusing to Permit Sole Legal Custody Father Who Had PRIMARY PHYSICAL CUSTODY to MOVE OUT OF STATE |
| Posted By Thurman W. Arnold, III, C.F.L.S. |
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F.T. vs. L.J. (2011) 194 Cal.App.4th 1
On April 6, 2011, the California Fourth Appellate District, Division One, in a strongly (and painfully) worded opinion reversed a San Diego trial judge's refusal to permit a father to relocate with the parties' four-year old son to the State of Washington to join his new wife and her family. While recognizing that the standard of appellate review of trial court custody and visitation orders is the "deferential abuse of discretion test," the appellate justices found that Superior Court Judge Lisa C. Schall's decision was influenced by her misunderstanding of the law applicable to several subjects, including move-away, and accordingly that "a discretionary order based on the application of improper criteria or incorrect legal assumptions is
not an exercised of
informed discretion and is subject to reversal even though there may be substantial evidence to [otherwise] support that order." Traditionally most judges have lived and ruled under the assumption that if it a decision is "discretionary" their orders are impervious to reversal unless they almost shock the conscience of the reviewing court. This is a big flag waving otherwise.
Following on the heels ofIrmo ["In Re the Marriage of"] Duris & Urbany,
Irmo Tharp, and
Irmo Fong all within the past six months, it is clear that a movement is afoot among the State's appellate courts to force family court trial judges to expand their knowledge of family law beyond 'seat of the pants' decisions. However, for the lawyers, therapists, psychologists, and family court services folks who may read this Blog - beware: What is being demanded from all of the [us] professionals is an entirely new level of knowledge and expertise that is long overdue. In my opinion the appellate judges are undertaking an admirable effort to triage and correct the very mistakes that historically made family law - the one area that most law-abiding citizens ever personally experience within our government sponsored legal system - the under-appreciated step-child of the courts. Such a transformation is vitally important to the rule of law, due process, the public's perception of government and fairness, and the functioning of our ever-increasingly complicated society and personal relationships.
It is time that judges, lawyers like me, mental health professionals, and everybody else involved in the family law justice system increase our commitment and expertise to serving the people - possibly such as yourself - who are and will remain not only our reason for being, but the source of our livelihoods.
F.T. v. L.J. is an important opinion for move-away applicants and their attorneys not just because it clarifies existing law and provides guidance on a host of issues commonly encountered in litigation over these arguably unfortunate situations, but it is going to be widely talked about by the mental health community and will influence how
Evidence Code 730 and
Family Code section 3111evaluators report to the courts because of this appellate court's attention to the details for what various FCS ("family court service" employees) and MHP's ("mental health professionals") opined. It appears that some of them, including the court mediators, took their eye off the ball as established by earlier legal precedent on this topic and the information presented to them.
The parties in this case dated for five or six months and this brief time together produced a bouncing baby boy in January, 2006. For the first thirteen months of his life, the child lived with Mom. On February 17, 2007, however, Mother burned her baby's arm with a hot curling iron "apparently to each him a lesson by showing him how hot it was." Father picked the boy up that evening, saw the injury, and took him to the hospital. Hospital staff called CPS and the police. Criminal charges were filed against the mother.
The child was placed with Dad and Mother's visitations were ordered supervised. Two weeks later he filed a petition to establish paternity and an OSC requesting orders for sole legal and physical custody. The parties were directed to attend custody mediation through Family Court Services but were unable to reach agreement, and so the mediator recommended that the child's primary residence be with Father and that Mother have supervised visits. In April, 2007, the parents stipulated to the recommended order "without prejudice to either party."
Five months later Father filed an OSC request seeking an order allowing him to move with the child to Texas. The parties were ordered back into mediation. At that time following a custody review hearing, the trial court removed the supervision requirement for Mom's visitation. Once again (surprise!) the parties could not agree in mediation, and the mediator recommended that Father have primary physical custody and that he be allowed to move, noting that in November, 2007, Mother had pleaded guilty to one count of simple battery on the child and was given four years' probation, and that she had an eleven year old child from a previous relationship who lived with the paternal grandparents.
For unknown reasons Father's request went off calendar at the time of the scheduled December, 2007, move-away hearing. In February, 2008, he refiled his application and psychologist Yanon Volcani, Ph.D., was appointed to conduct a psych evaluation of the parents and child. He issued a report in September, 2008.
Volcani recommended against the Father's proposed move to Texas, believing that it would interfere with this 2 1/2 year old's bonding with Mother because of the distance (based upon current best mental health opinions on the developmental stages of children). Volcani concluded that telephone, webcam, and other means of contact would not be well suited for a child this age, and had concerns whether Father would "enthusiastically" support the child's relationship with his mother. He also felt that mother had learned from her experience of burning the child, and while her action was 'rash, impulsive, and insensitive' the data did not suggest a "broader abusive intent." He recommended that Mother's timeshare be incrementally expanded.
On September 18, 2008, the trial court adopted Volcani's proposed parenting plan as a temporary order pending an evidentiary hearing, without prejudice, based upon findings that this was in the best interests of the minor. The matter was then lost in the limbo of hearing continuances and further court services mediations ultimately until March 5, 2010.
By now Father was requesting permission to move to Washington instead of Texas, and was intending on marrying a woman living there. Mother had married. Lynn Waldman, a Family Court services counselor, reported to the Court that she had learned that the minor child in 2009 began exhibiting rage, temper tantrums, and other behavioral issues at school and that this three year old was seeing a counselor who couldn't explain "where [Child's] anger is coming from. She interviewed Dr. Volcani but developed incorrect impressions about whether he'd last met with the parents over the two ensuing years after his initial report, and other misconceptions. She recommended against the move to Washington, but stated that Father should remain in his role as the primary caregiver.
In February, 2010, Volcani issued a report supplementing his opinions from September, 2008. Father by then had married his fiance, who herself had two teenagers. Volcani had re-interviewed the parents, the new spouses, and the minor's preschool teacher and therapist. He noted that since the initial evaluation that the parents had been co-parenting in a "relatively cooperative and stable manner." The minor was continuing to have rage issues (e.g., throwing a chair and punching another student) but these were improving. Still, because of the child's age it was difficult to know what was causing it.
On March 5, 2010, the trial court held a hearing but did not permit live testimony and denied the Father's request to move. The court made a number of findings which were not supported by the record. Chief among them was the conclusion that the parents "are not communicating" - when in fact Dr. Volcani actually stated otherwise and that their communications had vastly improved over the two years that had passed. Moreover, without any rational MHP support, the trial court concluded that the evidence proved the child's rage, speaking out in his sleep, and bed wetting all had to do with the parents' lack of a meaningful dialog. The court stated it "feels that the anger is coming from the tension between the two parties."
Maybe, but the court didn't pull this conclusion from any evidence before it in terms of an expert assessment and conclusion that this was the case (the child's own therapist couldn't explain the child's behaviors). Some conclusions apparently exceed what common sense would otherwise suggest.
By the way, what is a three year old doing with a therapist?
Anyway, the Court adopted Volcani's conclusion that the child's healthy development was being impeded, although on different grounds than Volcani had expressed. The court concluded "Father's reasons for the move, that is to join a new wife and family, are not sufficient and a new wife and family in Washington is not a sufficiently necessary reason to move the residence of [Child] to Washington...."
Huh?
Moreover, the Court implied that if Father decided to move anyway that the Court would take custody away from dad and give it to mother, a really bad idea under existing caselaw because of its coercive overtones.
Enter the Established Law of Move-Away
This is what makes this case important - a judge that was justifiably bothered by the impact that the relocation would have on the relationship between a parent (mother) and child understandably struggled not to permit the move. But she was wrong and the appellate court scolds her harshly for it. Her decision was not an exercise of informed discretion.
At the same time, some of the Father's arguments were off-track as well. For instance, he argued that he had a presumptive right to move under authority of Family Code section 7501 which states: "
A parent entitled to the custody of a child has a right to change the residence of the child, subject to the power of the court to restrain a removal that would prejudice the rights or welfare of the child." The Fourth Appellate District ruled that 7501 only applies to "final" custody determinations, and not those that are "temporary," following the case of Montenegro v. Diaz (2001) 26 Cal.4th 249. Here the parties had lived under a "stipulation" for two years, but had never reduced it to a final agreement and no court had ever ruled as to any contested matter within the context of an evidentiary hearing. This is a rule that most family law attorneys already know well (which is why the smart ones write their orders to declare the custody agreements favoring their clients as "final" orders). The practical effect of this fact in this case was that "Mother did not have an initial burden to show [that] Child would suffer detriment were he to move with Father to Washington."
Father also argued that because Mother had been convicted of battering her son, a presumption arose under Family Code section 3044 that she should not have custody of the boy that was possibly "conclusive" if not merely rebuttable. While the idea that the presumption might be conclusive based evidently upon the appalling seriousness of intentionally burning a child is ... creative ... it doesn't track in the slightest what California law says on the subject, and was quickly disposed of by the appellate judges. The justices ruled that "[a] section 3044 finding of domestic violence 'in a family law case changes the burden of persuasion as to the best interests test, but it does not limit the evidence cognizable by the court, and it does not eliminate the best interest requirement." "Nor does the statute establish a presumption for or against joint custody; again, the paramount factor is the child's health, safety and welfare. And where the section 3044 presumption has been rebutted, there is no statutory bar against an award of joint or sole custody to a parent who was the subject of the order. This is particularly important in move-away cases." In this case the trial court had not made any express findings under section 3044 anyway, so on remand that is a subject the court is directed to pick up.
However, what the trial court did wrong is this:
The father had no burden to prove his move was "necessary". When the trial court opined that "Father's reasons for the move, that is to join a new wife and family, are not sufficient and a new wife and family in Washington is not a sufficiently necessary reason to move the residence of [Child] to Washington...." it supplanted the rule of law with an understandable discomfort with the effects the move would have on Mom's relationship with her son. The issue instead was the best interests of the child, and that decision must be considered in light of the established rule that "the paramount need for continuity and stability in custody arrangements - and the harm that may result from established patterns of care and emotional bonds with the primary caretaker [father here] - weigh heavily in favor of maintaining ongoing custody arrangements."
Hence, Judge Schall's "order denying Father's motion reveals a misunderstanding of the determination a trial court must make in deciding a move-away motion by a custodial parent. In this case, the trial court, in effect, avoided the ultimate question whether a change in custody would be in Child's best interests were the custodial parent (Father) to move to Washington.... The question ... is not whether the parent may be permitted to move; the question is what arrangement for custody should be made [if and when the custodial parent moves]." A custodial parent is
not required to show a planned relocation is necessary.
In other words, the trial court has to assume the plan for the proposed move is a serious one, and has to address the issue of custody as though the move will occur. Moreover, and this is the heart of the decision and the basis for reversal, "[t]o the extent the trial court denied Father's move-away motion with the goal of maintaining the status quo and/or coercing Father to abandon his plan to move to Washington, it erred." [Italics added].
Finally, while the effect of a move will naturally be detrimental to the child's relationship with the remaining parent, this is but one factor for the court to consider and cannot be the sole basis for denying a move. The case of Marriage of LaMusga (2004) 32 Cal.4th 1072 (hand's down the most important move-away case to know), establishes a litany of factors for trial courts to consider in their totality - which is the subject for another Blog.
This case is reversed and remanded to the trial court to evaluate all the LaMusga factors and so exercise an informed discretion before summarily denying Father's request to move.
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| April 08, 2011 |
| I Have My Ex-Husband's EMAIL PASSWORD and Found Email That Proves His INABILITY TO PARENT - How Do I Present This to the Family Court? |
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Q. My ex-husband and I are involved in a bitter custody dispute. I recently realized he had not changed his Email password, and so I was able to enter his account and review his emails. I found evidence that proves he is using drugs, and I think this puts my son at grave risk. How should I best present this evidence to the Family Law Judge?
A. In my opinion you don't, and I'd advise you to stop snooping his emails no matter how important you think it is for the safety of your child. Beyond the fact that you expose yourself to a civil lawsuit for invasion of the Father's privacy, and have violated various State and Federal laws, you run a couple of other serious risks that may adversely affect the custody outcome you seek - these far outweigh whatever advantage you think the information gives you.
Most importantly as it relates to custody under California law, invading someone's email account and sharing what you find quite arguably constitutes a form of domestic violence. This was established two years ago in a case entitled Marriage of Nadkarni (2009) 173 Cal.App.4th 1483. If permanent restraining orders are issued in a domestic violence action that your ex could choose to file against you when he learned what you'd done (i.e., when you submitted the emails as exhibits filed with the court), a smothering presumption arises against you under
Family Code section 3044 "that an award of sole or joint physical or legal custody of a child to a person who has perpetrated domestic violence is detrimental to the best interest of the child, pursuant to Section 3011." In other words, if the family court granted orders against you as a result of this conduct, you may end up assuring you lose your case and hence the ability to safeguard the very persons whom you hope to protect.
In Nadkarni the Husband gained access to the wife's email account and attached copies of her private email between she and others (including her attorney) to show that Mother had lied to Child Protective Services, and that she'd told the children to lie to him as well - and more. Husband argued he had "no choice" but to use these emails because his "kid's safety was at stake" and that he'd accessed the accounts "in sheer panic and desperation" to protect the children. Sound familiar?
Upon discovering this Wife immediately sought temporary restraining orders pursuant to Family Code section 6320. That section permits courts to issue DV orders to stop behavior that amounts to "disturbing the peace." She alleged that she had never authorized Husband to use the account or given him the password. She also claimed that Husband was using the information to stalk her, and that his activities made her fearful because he'd beaten her badly during the marriage - and was criminally convicted of same.
While a temporary order was issued upon her application, at the hearing for permanent restraining orders her application was denied. The trial court felt that this behavior did not rise to the level of what should be restrained under the Domestic Violence Prevention Act.
Wife appealed and the trial court's interpretation of FC §6320 was reversed. The appellate court ruled "we believe that the Legislature intended that the DVPA be broadly construed in order to accomplish the purpose of the DVPA. Therefore, the plain meaning of the phrase 'disturbing the peace' in section 6320 may include, as abuse within the meaning of the DVPA, a former husband's alleged conduct in destroying the mental or emotional calm of his former wife by accessing, reading and publicly disclosing her confidential emails." The case was ordered sent back to the trial court to hold a full hearing on the wife's claims. I imagine she won that hearing.
Family law disputants are often acting in "sheer panic" but the ends do not justify the means. You risk blowing yourself up if you attempt to use the material you obtained in any way. Destroy it. I suppose we could come up with exceptions or justifications under extreme facts, where for instance a conspiracy to commit a murder or some other major crime was uncovered, that might trump the prohibition against this type of behavior. But the value of what you have here is insufficient to justify your actions, and the evidence would likely not be admitted anyway over an objection. Even if your husband does not press the advantage you potentially give him by seeking DV orders against you, most judges (and hopefully a lawyer advising you) will question your decision-making abilities once you expose what you did. A lawyer would be ill-advised to submit these emails to the court on your behalf, not merely tarnishing his own reputation but possibly exposing himself to civil liability as well.
Resist your panic, and resist your curiosity. These disputes dial people into temporary insanity and reactivity, and often the result winds up bringing about the very thing they most fear (this dad gaining primary physical custody and reducing your custodial timeshare). There are better ways to skin this cat. |
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| April 07, 2011 |
| What Is the TIME LIMIT For Filing a RESPONSIVE or REPLY DECLARATION in Family Law Proceedings? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold, CFLS |
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Q. I want to file reply paperwork in opposition to the Responsive Declaration I received from my ex on a pending motion for child custody. How and when must this be accomplished?
A. Failure to comply with rules relating to the service of court papers can result in your pleadings being ignored or stricken by the Court, or a request by the opposing party for a continuance of your hearing. If you are defending an application to the Court, you are well-served to know these rules if objecting to the other party's submittals to the Court if you need additional time in which to gather evidence or otherwise respond or reply.
The time limits for filing documents with the court relating to family law proceedings in California are generally the same as those for other civil actions. They are primarily governed by California Code of Civil Procedure section 1005. In order to be "timely" (and hence to ensure that they are read and considered by the trial court), your papers must be accompanied by a Proof of Service that shows that service was accomplished within applicable deadlines. That proof of service must be signed by a non-party.
- Moving and supporting papers (including the original Notice of Motion or Order to Show Cause application), must be served and filed 16 court days before the hearing date.
- However, add five days if the moving papers are not served personally but if instead they are sent by first-class regular mail from California to an address within this State (i.e., the proof of service must be dated at least 21 days before the hearing date).
- Add ten days instead if the place of mailing is outside of California or if the address to which the mail is being sent is outside the State.
- Add twenty days instead if the addressee resides, or the sender is serving from, outside the United States.
- If the recipient is outside the State, or the sender is out of state, but you serve by FAX, express mail, or another method of deliver providing for overnight delivery, add only two days.
- Opposition papers, like Responsive Declarations or Points and Authorities, must be filed with the Court and served at least nine court days prior to the hearing date.
- Reply papers, in response to opposition pleadings, must be filed and served at least five court days before the hearing.
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However, and importantly, note that
CCP §1005(c) requires that all Responsive Declarations (and other opposition paperwork) must be served by personal delivery, FAX, express mail, or other means sufficient to assure overnight service, "and reasonably calculated to ensure
delivery to the other party or parties not later than the close of the next business day after the time the opposing papers or reply papers, as applicable, are filed". This includes all attachments or exhibits to those papers.
- This last point applies equally to Reply pleadings and supporting exhibits. A Reply must be filed with the Court clerk at least five court days before hearing - and the other party must actually receive it by the next day!
To be candid, attorneys often get these filing/service dates wrong: I did - once. If your attorney does get it wrong, resulting in a continuance in the hearing of your application, in my opinion you should not be billed for that day's efforts - and a lawyer who thinks you should be billed when they make this kind of mistake may not be your best choice for continued representation.
Conversely, it is a ground for requesting attorney fees if you are the resisting party who is forced to return to court another day (assuming that an attorney fee request is already pending, because without it there is no jurisdictional basis for the court to reimburse such fees). If you don't have an attorney, you don't get attorney fees.
FAX service can be problematic. I recommend overnight mail or personal delivery by a third party instead.
Finally, if you are serving documents on the attorney for the other side personally, please review
CCP §1011.
T.W. Arnold, C.F.L.S.
"Improving the Standards of Practice Within the Legal Community"
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