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| June 14, 2010 |
| Is a PRENUPTIAL AGREEMENT signed without an attorney ENFORCEABLE? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. Before my wife and I married, she convinced me to sign a Prenup prepared by her brother, who is a Los Angeles divorce attorney. It says that I waive any right to property acquired with her earnings. It also says I had the opportunity to get legal advice but was choosing not to. At the time she had all the money and I couldn't afford an attorney. Besides, she told me she would be fair if we separated. Now, six years later, she says I have no rights to the house we bought soon after our honeymoon. A friend told me that since I didn't have an attorney at the time I signed it, the agreement cannot be enforced. Is this true?
A. Whether or not a Prenup - formally known as a premarital agreement - gets enforced is highly fact specific, so it is impossible for me to answer your question except in general terms. I would need more information and to look at the document carefully. I can give you some useful pointers, however.
California has adopted the UPAA (The Uniform Premarital Act) as Family Code sections 1600-1617. Prior to its adoption prenups were viewed by courts with suspicion, and they were much harder to enforce. One reason was that as a matter of public policy it was believed that prenuptial agreements undermined marriage and so promoted divorce. Today they are viewed as supportive of the marriage institution, particularly in cases of second marriages where many people won't remarry without one. Although we speak in terms of marriage, the UPAA applies equally to registered domestic partnerships.
Still, they are viewed somewhat technically and to be enforceable they must meet the requirements of the statutes. Family Code section 1612 speaks to what rights are properly altered by a Prenup. Subsection (a)(1) and (3) deal with property interests. As a starting point, there is no question but that a premarital agreement can waive interests in real property like residences.
The critical family code section dealing with enforceability is section 1615. Anybody considering a Prenup, or questioning its validity, should scan this statute. The chief defense to a Prenup is that it was not executed voluntarily. If you can prove that, it will be treated as void. If the agreement was signed as result of duress, coercion or undue influence it will likely not be enforced. The lack of an independent attorney can result in a finding that the agreement was not entered voluntarily.
If one expects a premarital agreement to be enforceable, there is simply is no safe reason for dispensing with legal counsel. Prenups should only and alwlays be drafted by qualified attorneys, and both parties must actually be advised about their legal effect, or they may not be worth the paper they are written on.
In all cases where my office drafts a premarital agreement, we will not proceed if the other party is unrepresented. In fact, where the other party lacks sufficient financial resources to do so, we insist that person select counsel and that our client pay for it. In my opinion it is a dangerous practice to deny a less financially empowered spouse or domestic partner the ability to access legal counsel in these situations.
The importance of having independent counsel in these matters is evident from the language of FC section 1615:
"(a) A premarital agreement is not enforceable if the party against whom enforcement is sought proves either of the following:
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(c) For the purposes of subdivision (a), it shall be deemed that a premarital agreement was not executed voluntarily unless the court finds in writing or on the record all of the following:
(1) The party against whom enforcement is sought was represented by independent legal counsel at the time of signing the agreement or, after being advised to seek independent legal counsel, expressly waived, in a separate writing, representation by independent legal counsel.
(2) The party against whom enforcement is sought had not less than seven calendar days between the time that party was first presented with the agreement and advised to seek independent legal counsel and the time the agreement was signed.
(3) The party against whom enforcement is sought, if unrepresented by legal counsel, was fully informed of the terms and basic effect of the agreement as well as the rights and obligations he or she was giving up by signing the agreement, and was proficient in the language in which the explanation of the party's rights was conducted and in which the agreement was written. The explanation of the rights and obligations relinquished shall be memorialized in writing and delivered to the party prior to signing the agreement. The unrepresented party shall, on or before the signing of the premarital agreement, execute a document declaring that he or she received the information required by this paragraph and indicating who provided that information...."
Notice how these provisions are almost shouting 'independent legal counsel.' It is rare to see a phrase repeated so often within the same code section.
So examine whether your agreement, and the required separate writing, seem to address these requirements. Also, check to see whether the other conditions for enforceability are met. There may be other reasons why your Prenup will not be enforced, as where undue influence was exerted to obtain your signature (notice the seven day waiting period, which is intended to overcome the social pressures where a wedding date is looming). But you would be ill-advised to embark upon a challenge to the agreement without legal counsel this time around; don't compound the problem.
A final comment: Setting aside the prenuptial agreement may only have a limited affect upon the status of the house. For instance, the rules relating to transmutations and reimbursements still apply. I have written about those elsewhere in this Blog, but if the house was acquired by your wife as her separate property independently of the Prenup it remains her separate property even if the agreement is voided. However, if there was a mortgage and it was paid down with her earnings during marriage the cancelation of the Prenup may benefit you because the community will thereby gain a Moore Marsden reimbursement right in the principal pay down and appreciation.
Again, seek out an experienced family law attorney. And, I always urge that people consider mediating these types of family law disputes.
T.W. Arnold
http://www.ThurmanArnold.com
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| April 08, 2010 |
| What happens to FEES I deposited if I FIRE my ATTORNEY? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. What are the refund policies if I reconcile with my spouse or switch attorneys?
A. Attorneys are required by California State Bar rules to refund all unused fees promptly, for whatever reason, when the relationship ends unless you have a Flat Fee arrangement where all the monies have been earned upon retention.
Attorneys are required to provide your original file to you, after they copy it at their own expense. Attorneys cannot hold a file hostage for unpaid fees. They must sign a Substitution of Attorney withdrawing from the case upon demand, regardless of whether or not they claim you owe them money. They are required to give a full statement and explanation of your fees and charges upon request. Refusal to do within 10 days or less may be a cause for State Bar Discipline. |
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| April 08, 2010 |
| What happens to the FEES I give an ATTORNEY? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. Where does the Retainer Deposit go?
A. Lawyers are required to place all unearned fees into a State Bar approved Attorney Client Trust Account. This is because the deposit does not belong to the attorney, it belongs to the client. It is only after fees are earned or costs are expended that the attorney may remove that amount of money from their trust account. Some lawyers do not maintain or use their trust accounts, and some will take the money upon retention as though they have earned it. This can result in discipline against the lawyer.
The importance of ensuring that you attorney follows State Bar practices cannot be overstated. Do not hire a lawyer that does not maintain a trust account. |
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| April 08, 2010 |
| What is a Family Law Retainer Agreement? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. What is a Family Law Retainer Agreement?
A. A Retainer Agreement is a written contract between you and your divorce lawyer. The California Bar requires that any agreement for services where fees are to be charged in excess of $1,000 must be memorialized by a written Agreement, and the Client must receive a copy. It describes what types of services the attorney agrees to perform, office practices, billing rates and practices, and how any fee disputes will be resolved between you.
For the agreement to be enforceable by the attorney, it must state whether or not they maintain legal malpractice insurance. |
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| March 24, 2010 |
| I am remarried. How does my NEW MATE'S INCOME affect my SPOUSAL SUPPORT or CHILD SUPPORT OBLIGATION? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. I remarried in August, 2009, and my new wife is a doctor. She has one child from her prior marriage and I have two. I am still paying my former wife alimony and child support even though the kids we have together live at our home 40% of the time. I have been hit hard by the economy and we largely depend upon my wife's medical income to make ends meet. Now my ex is threatening to take me back to court to increase my support based upon my new wife's income, while my own income is down from when the court last decided it. My new wife is upset at the idea that my ex can learn anything about the medical practice or income. What should I do?
A. If there has been a material decrease in your income since the time of your last order, you may safely file a support modification motion to lower your child support and to lower or possibly terminate your spousal support. Whether that is advisable based upon your numbers has nothing to do with your new mate's income, and should not cause you to hesitate - but again, it does depend on the actual respective numbers between you and Wife 1, which you did not provide me. You also need not worry about W1 filing a motion to increase (you can't stop her, but she will not win based on W2's earnings). Maybe you should give her this link so she will think twice.
California law is quite clear that new mate income cannot generally be considered against you in ordering or modifying child or spousal support. The controlling California Family statute is section 4057.5.
In the normal situation, Family Code section 4057.5 leaves the Court no discretion to consider your new wife's earnings, period. You do not need to report those earnings on your FL-150 (Income and Expense Declaration). This is a statement of California legislative policy effective in 1993 when this section was added to the Family Code. This is true for both spousal and child support.
However, section 4057.5 does contain an exception for the "extraordinary case" which the statute makes clear is intended to address situations where "where excluding that income would lead to extreme and severe hardship to any child subject to the child support award" or where "a parent ... voluntarily or intentionally quits work or reduces income, or who intentionally remains unemployed or underemployed and relies on a subsequent spouse's income." Even if the court were to find a severe hardship on the children of marriage number one, it would be required not to impose a severe hardship on your wife's child by reallocating her income to you for purposes of supporting your two children.
In practice, so far, Courts almost never find facts sufficient overcome this clear statutory prohibition. So far there is no published California appellate decision defining these extraordinary circumstances. No doubt one day someone will so abuse this protection and hide behind it that we will get a reported decision that fleshs out how bad someone needs to behave before the protection is lost. But "extraordinary" means really extraordinary. In the average case, your new Wife has nothing to be concerned about.
With regard to attorneys fee awards, however, there is authority for an argument that new mate income may be considered in granting or denying an attorney fee request, but the odds are against a judge doing that.
Incidentally, this section also applies to income from nonmarital partners as well as new spouses. In one reported case (IRMO Loh), a trial court was reversed for inceasing dad's child support obligation after the mother produced photos of the father's "lifetyle" to show imputed nontaxable income in the form of his new girlfriend's contributions to him, since she paid for all his toys.
The new mate question is a subset of the "imputed income" situations where a father or mother may quit work or reduce hours because they are relying on their new mate to contribute the difference. That is not likely going to be an extraordinary case, but W1 can separately seek to impute income to you on the basis that you have a higher earning capacity than you are exercising. Earning capacity and imputed income is a blog for another day. Also, I will mention here that another argument exists in favor of W1 that has nothing to do with the right to obtain the records or income of W2: Equalizing the lifestyle's of the two households where yours is rich and grandiose and W1 is impoverished (an extreme example) pursuant to FC section 4057(b)(4).
The tax returns are privileged as they relate to your new wife's medical practice. For instance, if she is a medical corporation (which I recommend be set up), she will almost never be forced to divulge those records. Even as to your joint returns, you may be entitled to redact the information concerning your new spouse or have the Court review them in camera (meaning they are not turned over to the other side). Your former mate is entitled to see your side of the tax returns, however, and they are not insulated from scrutiny simply because you filed joint with the Doctor Wife. If you don't file jointly, your former wife will almost certainly never get her hands on your new wife's Married Filing Separately (MFS) returns. Structuring things this way may or may not be advisable and you should consult a tax accountant.
An interesting twist here is that because you marry a higher, wealthy earner, your taxes actually increase because under federal IRS (and the California FTB), you are responsible for one-half of your new mate's income - and this is true even if you don't file jointly. One case (County of Tulare vs. Campbell) has held that this additional tax you become liable for can form the basis for a reduction in your support because you have less net income available for support after the tax hit is deducted. Hence, based on these tax consequences you may have an additional argument for decreased support - although a Court may try to deny you some discretionary offset to even the score since this feels a bit unfair to the spouse who is primarily supporting the children and so lessen the downward modification.
The take-away: So long as you are not playing games, have not intentionally reduced your income by relying upon your new mate's income, and there is no really extraordinary difference in the two households, your new wife's income is just not relevant and so it is protected. |
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| January 20, 2010 |
| What should I do before selecting a divorce attorney? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. What should I ask a family law attorney to see if we are a good fit?A. Before you step into a lawyers office, you should know something about them. Today this is easy. Go to the California State Bar website. Search the attorney's name. You will learn where they attended undergraduate school and law school; when they were admitted to the Bar, whether they belong to any Bar Sections and stay current with the law, and how long they've been practicing. Not all law schools are created equally.
You will learn whether they have been disciplined. Lawyers can be disciplined for a number of reasons; some go to the essence of that attorney's character and affect their reputation in the community, including with Judges before whom they appear.
Second, ask for a referral. Be sure the reporting person is reliable themselves, not over-conflicted, and that they have a basis for their opinion.
Referrals from long practising mental health professionals are an excellent recommendation.
Referrals from other lawyers is a very good way to choose a lawyer, and if you know an attorney run the names you are considering by him or her. Martindale.comrates lawyers in terms of client satisfaction.
Web sites, like this one, are also a good place to start. They may tell you something about the attitude of the attorney and the style of their practice, or they may be a misleading billboard.
Most attorney websites are put together by advertising firms and don't reflect the real personality of the lawyers. Many lawyers pay ghost writers to put up blogs or "articles" on their sites. They subscribe to "newsletters" that they appear to have, but have not, written.
Thurman Arnold has researched and written every word on this site (truly). We don't believe there is another family law website in the country that matches our commitment in making dissolution related information available to people for nothing.
Many lawyers will not charge for an initial consult. The Law Firm of Thurman Arnold III does not charge for initial consults, over the phone or in person, and we usually spend a half hour to an hour with clients when we first meet them. We want to know about you, and it is important that you get to know us.
Remember that lawyers are busy professionals, and time is their stock in trade. It isn't ethical for you to interview lawyers to gather free information or just to validate your opinions.
Asking the attorney their opinion on issues important to you at the initial meeting is not inappropriate or off limits in the slightest.
You are trying to determine several bits of information:
1) Is this attorney actually experienced in ways that are helpful to you?
Family law is complicated because it is not just the lawyer's experience with the law that is important, but it is also their familiarity with professional and life situations similar to your own.
2) What is the attorney's attitude about how divorces should be handled? Does she know how to listen?
Is that attitude consistent with your own goals? For instance, if you intend to lie to your spouse, hide assets, and if you care only about the outcome from your own perspective, you would need to hire a lawyer who tends to practice in a way that accomplishes that goal. If that is who you think you are, you want a divorce gunslinger.
But, beware, these lawyers will treat you the same way as you treat others.
If instead you are like most persons involved in the trauma of divorce, rational one day but distressed and confused and even nasty and reactive the next, you need someone compassionate and ethical to guide you. If you think that being ethical means being soft, examine what it is in your thinking that concludes that.
Conflict resolution is not the same as conflict avoidance. You do need to make sure that your lawyer has the background, ability, experience, and interest in you to manage your case. The best attorneys have some educational background in the family sciences or family studies, and regularly undertake family law continuing education. Such training reflects an unusual commitment to the craft that may distinguish them from the pack. The Law Firm of Thurman Arnold III actually lists our experience, training, and continuing education on this site to evaluate - we challenge other attorneys to do likewise.
3) You need to feel that you and the lawyer you hire are a good fit. If it reliably seems that the two of you can act as an empathetic team, and that you value the same things, you are on the right track.
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| January 17, 2010 |
| I have an attorney but what if I want a SECOND OPINION? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. I have an attorney. But what if I want a second opinion about my divorce case?
A. Dissolution proceedings generate great anxiety for clients. The circumstances surrounding the breakup of relationships, division of property and debts, sharing of custody, fears about future economics, and being a stranger to a process that clients feel they cannot direct or control quite reasonably tends to cause clients difficulty in evaluating the quality of advice they are receiving. You should not hesitate to seek a second opinion about your family law matter.
We all ought to have a healthy skepticism about what professionals tell us, particularly when the subject affects us in an immediate way on a daily and lifetime basis. It is not uncommon to even become suspicious of one's attorney, or to lose confidence in them. Indeed, a major tactic which parties use to manipulate each other in high conflict divorces involves promoting distrust of the other's lawyer.
And, lawyers may make mistakes like anyone else. Sometimes they lack sensitivity or forget what the client's experience is. Others feel that outright aggression and gamesmanship is what the client really wants. Some lawyers view their role as akin to hired gunslingers. This generates huge fees, and often alienates judges, evaluators, and others important to the outcome of your case. The law does not require that attorneys follow a client's specific direction and tactics (particularly where it is unethical, illegal, or unconscionable). But a problem arises when the attorney and the client do not share or communicate the same goals.
If you have concerns about the quality or legal ethics of representation you are receiving, you may be right. In such cases it is essential that you seek a second legal opinion from a qualified attorney. Too many people rely on the opinions of friends or family, who usually know very little or are allied with a particular point of view about you or your partner that may ignore important considerations.
If you find you have a problem with your present attorney, it is imperative that you not wait until the last moment. If your case is coming to trial or hearing, your legal rights could be negatively impacted by delay. Chances are, since you are reading this, that you need to take some action at once.
We offer Second Opinions and frank and discreet, expert advice, by telephone and video-conferencing and webcam! |
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| September 18, 2009 |
| Idaho Trial Court Rules that Mother Cannot Move to Michigan, Even Without the Kids! |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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By Thurman Arnold: I just have to blog this news from Idaho to reinforce why clients are so often better off resolving their disputes then asking judges - who mean well - to decide for them.
In Allbright v. Allbright the parties divorced and entered into a stipulation requiring 60 days notice before either moved out of Bannock County, Idaho, if it rendered the parenting plan impractical. Mother remarried, and 2 years later her new husband lost his employment. He was only able to find employment in Michigan. Mother gave notice of her intent to move to Michigan. At that time she had custody of the parties' minor daughter 54% of the time. Father responded with a motion to give him custody. The parties sought recommendations from a psychologist, who conducted a custody evaluation and recommended daughter be allowed to move to Michigan with mother. He recommended a custody manager because of the "considerable hostility" between the parents. Father wasn't happy and convinced the trial court to appoint a second custody evaluator, who recommended that Father retain custody if Mother moved.
The case was tried in the summer of 2008. At the conclusion of the case, the court asked the parties' attorneys to brief whether it had the power to order Mother not to move at all, whether with or without the daughter.
Father urged that that child's best interests were (and would always be) best served if the parents remained in the same vicinity so that joint parenting could be shared. His lawyer argued that the child's best interests trumped every other consideration or right, such that a trial court could even, for example, order divorced and warring parents to live next door to each other or in the same house if it determined that was in the child's best interests!
The trial court evidently agreed, and ordered that Mom must not move out of Idaho whether with or without the daughter. Mother was hence enjoined to become a prisoner within that state, while her new husband continued his life in Michigan.
Thankfully, the Idaho Supreme Court disagreed with the trial court, but only after Mom probably spent thousands in legal fees defending her right to move. The high Court ruled: "A court presiding over a child custody matter does not become a family czar with unlimited authority to order the parents to do anything that the court believes is in the best interests of the child."
Yet, upon Mother's request to be reimbursed for her legal expenses, the Idaho Supreme Court was unsympathetic declaring that "[b]ecause we have never before addressed the issue of whether a court has the authority to prevent a parent from relocating, we do not find that Father defended this appeal frivolously, unreasonably, or without foundation."
Thurman's comment: It is always a dangerous matter to fail to resolve matters collaboratively.
Here is a link to the Idaho Supreme Court's decision in Allbright v. Allbright.
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| August 18, 2009 |
| I want to hire a NEW ATTORNEY with money my husband was ordered to pay my last lawyer. |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. The court ordered my husband to pay my present attorney $10,000 for legal fees at $500/month. He has made 2 or 3 payments. The court order says the fees are to be paid directly to her. She filed a motion to withdraw, and fired me.
Now I need a new attorney. Can this money be used to pay them instead? Her bills say I owe her $11,000?
Julia. Rancho Cucamonga
Family Code section 272 provides, in dealing with court orders that one party pay the other money on account of their legal fees, "(c) If the attorney has ceased to be the attorney for the party in whose behalf the order was made, the [prior]attorney may enforce the order only if it appears of record that the attorney has given to the former or successor counsel 10 days' written notice of the application for enforcement of the order. During the 10 day period, the client may file in the proceeding a motion directed to the former attorney for partial or total reallocation of fees and costs to cover the services and cost of successor counsel. On the filing of the motion, the enforcement of the order by the former attorney shall be stayed until the court has resolved the motion."
So, in order for your former attorney to be entitled to continue to receive payment she has to have given you notice which is unlikely since few attorneys know about this rule. Effectively, you probably need to demand she give the notice, and then file or have a motion filed within the 10 days to tell the court you cannot continue your case if those fees are not used for your new attorney! |
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| August 02, 2009 |
| Joint legal and sole physical custody Mom needs help. |
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I am a mom in San Diego County. There are court orders out of El Cajon for joint legal custody and sole physical to me. The old orders said I could move anywhere within San Diego County. I just changed our son's school to north county San Diego. I want to remarry, and have been living with my fiance for 4 years. I believe the schools are better here. Now our son's father is trying to force me to keep our son in the old school south of here, or to take custody. He says the school our son was in is better. I would have to drive 70 miles for school drop off and pickup.
I have no money for attorney fees because my last lawyer had only a year's experience, and she upset the judge and now I am out $10,000. We have a hearing in 3 days. Please help.
Mellissa
Mellisa:
I am not sure whether you filed an Income and Expense Declaration before now but you might be prepared to submit one to the Court on the issue of attorney fees at this upcoming hearing:
Attorney Fees Question/Assuming There Are Any Further Hearings
While attorneys fees should be your second argument, assuming that any further hearings are set or you get the sense things are not going well, you do need to ask for an Order for the $5,000 in attorney fees – even if the issue was not raised in your moving papers, you are still entitled to make this request pursuant to Family Code [FC] section 2031(2)(b)(1) for the first time on Thursday. That section states ‘an order for fees may be made without notice in open court … at the time of the hearing.’ Court has 15 days to rule. If it states in will rule later, ask that both parties be ordered to submit FL-150 I and E statements within 7 days.
You are requesting attorney's fees because the issues involved are some of the most complex in this area of the law (parent relocation), and you are entitled to be on a parity with Mr. Tr xxx, who has been able to retain competent counsel.
Specifically, tell the Court your request is also made under authority of Alan T.S., Jr. (4/2/09) 172 Cal.App.4th 238 and In re Marriage of Keech (1999) 75 Cal.App.4th 860. Tell the Court that you are in pro per but do not want to be, but that obligation of supporting the child from this marriage plus the financial burden of your other handicapped child, makes it impossible for you to obtain legal representation without an order that Mr. Txxxx pay these fees.
Move-Away Situation 1)
Establish that the final, current order, is for joint legal and sole physical custody to you. Mr. Txxxx rights are for visitation only, but not custody, absent a modification of the current orders upon a showing by him of a material change of circumstances. Your move and the child’s new school is not presumptively, without more, a sufficient change of circumstances to warrant a change of custody even assuming he asked for it (I don’t know if he has).
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As the parent entitled to the day to day supervisory control of the child per FC section 3007 (defines sole custody), you had a presumptive right to relocate. This is the same right codified in FC section 7501. You have custody; dad has visitation rights. (Btw, his visitation rights are not being negatively impacted by the move, by his own admission, since his objection only involves relative school ratings).
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As to the joint legal custody label, this only grants each of you the rights under FC section 3003 (decisions regarding health, education and welfare) during your respective custody and visitation times. FC section 3083. It is does not obligate you and he to agree on schooling absent a court order saying you had to first, per 3083, and it must be specific and mention “schooling” (I assume this is not the case).
4) Even though you were not required to do it, you gave dad notice per FC section 3024 that you were moving north and changing the child’s schooling. F’s atty intimidated you into filing a motion for permission to make the move, when they probably were the one’s obligated to file a motion to restrain the change, and so you have acted in good faith. This is particularly true given the court order from (the ealier date) stating you can relocate anywhere within San Diego County.
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It is very important if their responsive declaration did not check the change of custody box, and if their paperwork only asks to restrict the change in schools – you need to be sure you are right about this before making the argument -- BUT if they are not seeking a modification of custody, then you have the right to move [7501] and change schools [3003/3083] and there should be no need for any further hearings and your application must be granted.
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Next, ONLY IF THEY’HE REQUESTED A CHANGE OF CUSTODY, then the next analysis is: That this is not a de facto joint parenting agreement. This not a Burgess footnote 12 case (which requires a “de novo” best interests of the child hearing only where there is true parenting agreement). Here the timeshare numbers become important – you want him as low as reasonably possible without sounding incredible. This is a straight Burgess situation, and therefore you have the presumptive right to move and you do not need to show that the your move was “necessary” or even in good faith, except with the added benefit to you that Burgess involved temporary orders and so the court had to do a best interest of the child analysis, while your case involves “permanent” orders and so that is not a ground for an evidentiary hearing (best interests was previously decided in your favor and the question will be not be reviewed again absent Dad showing a change of circumstances).
7) Changing schools is not an adequate CoC as recently held by the California Supreme Court in Brown and Yana (2006) 37 Cal..4th 947. There, like you, a parent with sole physical custody sought to move a much greater distance from the dad – Las Vegas. Dad’s objection was that the schools in LV were inferior. He wanted an evidentiary hearing before the move would be allowed, and he sought a change of custody to himself if Mom moved anyway. The trial court correctly refused to allow an evidentiary hearing because the Father had failed to allege sufficient facts showing a detriment to the child by simply claiming the relative merits of schools. Courts won’t step into that qualitative battle. Instead, F needs to show that you are attempting to frustrate contact, which clearly is not the case, or some other “detriment” in his responsive declaration. His failure to do so means he is not entitled to an evidentiary hearing.
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Since he is not entitled to an evidentiary hearing, even though a mediation is appropriate in the next month, it would be improper for this court to issue any orders that restrain your son’s ability to start school on 8/20/09 as planned.
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Father has failed to meet his burden. You need attorney fees to retain competent counsel for any further hearings.
10) Finally, under FC section 3044 there is a rebuttable presumption that dad is not a fit person to be a joint custodial parent because of the DV orders.
Best of luck on this. If you get a court order for attorney fees, hire someone!
Thurman Arnold
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