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Recent Posts in Nonparent Custody Category
| May 10, 2010 |
| What does it mean that a judge has ordered a 730 EVALUATION in my custody case? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. My ex wife and I are fighting over custody of our three children. The judge decided to appoint a psychologist to interview us all. How does this affect me and my case?
A. In high conflict cases where two sides have entrenched and opposing views about what is in the best interests of their children in terms of custody and visitation, California Evidence Code section 730 provides judges the option of appointing an expert witness to investigate the matter and report to the Court. This is often referred to as a forensic evaluation but in California we typically call them "730 evaluations."
What this means for you is that your family is likely in trouble, since these custody evals only are necessary where parents are failing to proactively resolve their parenting issues. They can be quite expensive in every way. I describe the process here in part to help encourage you avoid it. Still, there are times when it can lead to a lessening of conflict and it may be inevitable in move away situations.
Forensic evaluations can be used in a number of other settings as well, including valuing businesses or real estate. It is extremely common in move away cases and in fact a strong argument can be made that to allow a parent to relocate with minor children in the absence of such a report (if it is requested) violates the due process rights of the non-moving parent [In re Marriage of McGinnis (1992) 7 Cal.App.4th 473, 9 Cal.Rptr. 2d 182].
In your situation the Court has likely appointed a Psychologist or Marriage and Family Therapist whose work is already known to the Court because that person is on a panel the Court uses, or possibly because one or both lawyers have worked with the expert and either recommended him or her to the Court. Often the parties' lawyers will agree upon this third person.
Reliable evaluators are not hired guns for either side. However, like everyone else they can have their own biases. To the extent that you can, it is always a good idea to get as much information as possible about a potential evaluator before a selection is made. Courts generally don't impose someone on the parties where one of them objects to that person, but in smaller communities there may be fewer options in terms of qualified evaluators.
It can be very difficult for a judge to determine the truth of claims between family law litigants, what their underlying motives are, whether there is some mental health or substance abuse undercurrent, and whether one parent is more likely than the other to foster an ongoing relationship between the other parent and their children. Courts don't have the time or resources to do much more than call balls and strikes based upon witness declarations or live testimony. Therapists and psychologists are able to spend time interviewing parents and sometimes have them complete psychological testing, they meet children, talk to teachers, visiting homes, check with therapists who are seeing family members, and also interview significant others, new spouses, and other children in blended families. A much more reliable picture may emerge than that which comes from the parties' own descriptions of themselves, their children, and the other parent.
These custody evaluations can be quite expensive, typically starting at about $2,500. They seem to average between $4,000 and $6,000, but the costs skyrocket with the number of people other than the parents themselves (often called 'collaterols') whose input is required.
It typically takes at least three months for an expert psychologist or MFT to complete all the necessary interviews and write a detailed report. In my experience the time frame is closer to four months. This report is then submitted to the attorneys and to the Court.
Most courts require this report to be submitted at least 10 days prior to a hearing, so that both sides have ample time to review it. If you are involved in a custody dispute and you or your attorney receive the report late, if you disagree with its recommendations you may want to object that you have not had sufficient time if you want a continuance; otherwise, the Court may adopt the recommendations at that hearing.
In almost all cases where a 730 report has been completed, either side may request that an evidentiary hearing take place with live testimony and the ability to examine and cross-examine witnesses - including the custody evaluator whose recommendations are being considered. Depending upon the urgency of the family's issues and the Court's availability, these hearings may not be set for weeks or months.
In addition, if you feel that the evaluator failed to adequately investigate the case, or did not meet the standards of practice for such evaluations, you may want to consider hiring your own Evidence Code § 733 expert to advise you or your attorney on how to point out the shortcomings to the Court. This can be an expensive, but sometimes useful, way to challenge findings that you do not agree with. The usefulness of 733 evaluators is limited by the fact they do not get to perform a second evaluation (for instance, they rarely meet with the other party), and without conducting full interviews with all relevant persons they may be ethically bound not to render an opinion and certainly their views won't carry the same weight with a judge as the full evaluator. This is not to imply, however, that your children's interests are even your own interests are served by attacking an evaluator's report just because you don't like portions of it.
I will write more on this topic but want to leave you with this thought: Contested custody cases will damage your children, guaranteed. I urge you to consider mediating your custody differences instead, either by using a qualified mediator or a mental health professional.
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| April 14, 2010 |
| Will the Court DRUG TEST My Wife? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. How do I get a Court Order for drug testing my wife? I know she is using and I fear she is a danger to our son.
A. Your argument for drug and alcohol testing of parents or others having custody or visitation with children is in California is found in Family Code section 3041.5. The statute is only five years old, and before it enactment the only practical way to get drug testing was by the other party's agreement.
It is possible to convince a family court that the other parent should be tested for drugs or alcohol where you present sufficient evidence that there "is the habitual, frequent, or continual illegal use of controlled substances or the habitual or continual abuse of alcohol by the parent, legal custodian, person seeking guardianship, or person seeking visitation in a guardianship." FC section 3041.5(a).
This evidence includes but is not limited to proof that the other person has been convicted in the past five years of the illegal use or possession of a controlled substance.
The other important statute you need to cite to the Court is Family Code section 3011(d), which speaks to the requirement in determining what custody and visitation is in the best interests of children courts must consider evidence of the habitual use of controlled substances (non-prescription or otherwise) or alcohol - but first you must submit "independent corroboration".
In my experience what often happens when drug allegations are made is that Family Judges prefer to get the parties to agree to drug testing and only order it when they will not (or when recommended by family court services or a mental health professional). If the parties will not agree, judges may order the testing as long as there is some corroboration that a potential drug issue exists. I am always amazed that people who are using (who are "dirty" as we say) will agree to test when they may not need to because there is insufficient independent proof of the use of drugs.
Please see my blog on hair follicle testing.
TWA
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| April 08, 2010 |
| How do COURTS decide to award JOINT CUSTODY? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. How do courts decide whether to award joint custody?
A. Family Code section 3010 provides that a mother and a father "are equally entitled to the custody of the child."
However, Family Code section 3020 sets forth the California legislative declaration that the chief concern of the State in with regard to custody issues is the "best interests" of the minor children. Lawyer's and judges refer to this as the "BIC" (best interests of child) standard. As a matter of public policy, BIC always trumps parental rights and interests; of course, BIC is a moving target. Family Code section 3011 sets forth a non-exhaustive list of factors that bear upon the BIC.
Section 3020 is an extremely important statute nonetheless, because it also expresses California public policy to (a) "assure the health, safety, and welfare of children" and (b) to "assure that children have frequent and continuing contact with both parents after the parents have separated or dissolved their marriage, or ended their relationship, and to encourage parents to share the rights and responsibilities of child rearing in order to effect this policy, except where the contact would not be in best interest of the child, as provided in Section 3011."
Here it is important to comment that when a court makes a custody determination, it is required "upon the request of either party," to issue a statement of the decision explaining the factual and legal basis for its findings. Family Code section 3022.3.
So, the court must make a decision, when parents cannot agree, based upon the evidence of what is in the child's best interest. Along these lines, there are certain presumptions that also apply which will affect the outcome of the BIC determination. Examples include a history of domestic violence by either party (Family Code section 3044) or habitual drug or alcohol abuse (FC section 3011(d)). In those situations the Court must actually state why it granted joint custody to a parent who is guilty of abuse, or is a continuing substance abuser, and those reasons may be hard to find. |
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| February 16, 2010 |
| OVERVIEW OF CUSTODY APPLICATIONS AND PROCEDURES in California |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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There are numerous types of cases that may involve custody determinations between parents and even nonparents (although nonparents typically need to be joined into the action since they are not automatically parties to their own child's divorce, for instance). These commonly include divorce proceedings, legal separations, paternity actions, and domestic violence applications. Guardianships involve custody but they are not covered here.
California Courts have jurisdiction to issue initial temporary custody awards, permanent custody awards, and to modify existing orders after a final custody award has been entered.
Whenever custody is on the table, visitation is as well. Typically child support is also at issue, although in order for a court to consider any request the moving party (the party who filed first) sets "the menu" for what the court can consider and make decisions about. The responding party does not set the menu, and must file their own separate application for orders to bring in new matters. It is imperative that a moving party (the party making requests) check the correct boxes on the
FL-310 and the Notice of Motion or OSC cover sheet. The reason for this is to ensure the other party receives 'due process,' meaning that they have fair notice of what the hearing is about and a fair opportunity to respond and to provide all relevant information in opposition.
Otherwise, if only the custody boxes are checked then any given court may refuse to discuss finances. Different judges do it differently, but it is important for you to do it right.
As a practical matter, in order to file for custody orders some underlying action must be filed. This could include a DCSS or other governmental application although you cannot control when and if that is filed.
Once the underlying action is filed, or together with it, a parent seeking orders may file an Order to Show Cause or Notice of Motion. If you represent yourself, you can obtain complete forms packets from your local court clerk. That application must be accompanied by the
FL-310 which tells the Court what it is you want and why you want it.
While you can handwrite the evidence you want to give the court on the FL-310, this is not a good idea. Better to set your information forth on the attachments sheets. Even better to type it out and attach it.
If you are seeking child support (or spousal support) orders, you must also submit a current Income and Expense Declaration which is California Judicial Council form
which is
Form FL-150. It is important that answer all the questions on that form and provide back up so you don't get scolded by a judge or have to return to court another day.
These papers must all be served on the opposing party, in person if this is the first filing and they have not yet responded in the action (notice of ex parte applications can be given orally, but there must be a proper personal services thereafter).
Be sure that you serve all the papers you want the court to consider. Do not expect that you can show up in court with new matters and evidence and just hand them to the judge. Procedural due process requires the other side get everything in time to respond. In addition, many judges will just refuse to consider untimely pleadings or defectively served documents - although, if for reasons beyond you control this happens to you (something new happened) - request a continuance at your first hearing so the other party gets their time to respond.
I address the actual issues regarding temporary custody and ex parte applications, permanent custody, and modification of custody in another blog. I will link back when those articles are done.
In the meantime, use our search engine at the top of every page to locate what you need to know about your family case in an efficient manner.
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| December 20, 2009 |
| GRANDPARENT CUSTODY in California. |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Grandparent Custody and Visitation
There are a number of important aspects to nonparent custody and visitation which deals with the rights of people who are not biological or legal parents of children to assume day to day responsibility for them, or merely to be in their lives when legal parents object (often the son or daughter in law). This circumstance sometimes occurs within the context of grandparent custody/visitation, or step parent visitation rights. It also may include siblings, other relatives, and foster parents.
Family Code section 3040 creates an order of preference for custody of children which begins with custody to parents. This parental preference is a fundamental policy of California child custody law, and its application is limited only by the best interests of children where parental custody can be demonstrated to be detrimental to a child.
This public policy has unfortunate aspects. Some parents act as if children are property, and believe that they are the only qualified decision makers. Sometimes they cut off older family members from the kids. But many parents are not equipped for the parenting task, and our society treats parenting as if we are all born knowing how to parent well. Grandparents who have already been through the parenting experience tend to be wiser than young parents.
If custody should not be or is not granted to either parent, courts must next grant custody to the person or persons in whose home the child has been living in a "wholesome and stable" environment. 3040(b). If no such person is available then custody may be awareded to any other person deemed by the court to be "suitable and able" to provide adequate and proper care and guidance for the child.
California custody courts have and exercise the "widest discretion" to choose a parenting plan that is in the best interests of the child.
Rules for custody differ from those dealing with visitation. California rules relating to grandparent visitation, step parent visitation, or visitations by others are found beginning at Family Code section 3100(a). "In the discretion of the court, reasonable visitation rights may be granted to any other person having an interest in the welfare of the child." Family Code section 3101 addresses stepparents. Sections 3103 and 3104 deal with different grandparent visitation scenarios.
Nonparent custody is a different animal than nonparent visitation. I will separately FAQ visitation and link it to this page soon. In the meantime, the visitation statutes are found at 3100 et seq.
Grandparent Custody Statutes
The grandparent custody statute is found at California Family Code section 3041.
The rules to qualify for nonparent custody are, appropriately, very difficult to satisfy. I say "appropriately" because we need to be skeptical of the State, or of family outsiders, imposing their will and views upon us. At the same time, we need to listen to our tribal members, so to speak.
Family Code section 3041 is a powerful statute. It creates a presumption in favor of parents objecting to nonparent custody, which a grandparent, for instance, may only overcome by presenting to the Family Court "clear and convincing evidence" that "granting custody to a parent would be detrimental to the child and that granting custody to the nonparent is required to serve the best interest of the child."
"Clear and convincing" evidence means evidence 'so clear as to leave no substantial doubt' or evidence which is 'sufficiently strong to command the unhesitating assent of every reasonable mind'.
There is an extremely valuable limitation to the clear and convincing evidence standard in nonparent custody cases under this statute:
"'detriment to the child' includes the harm of removal from a stable placement of a child with a person who has assumed, on a day-to-day basis, the role of his or her parent, fulfilling both the child's physical needs and the child's psychological needs for care and affection, and who has assumed that role for a substantial period of time."
If a grandparent can prove that they are a person described above, then not only does the "clear and convincing" burden evaporate, but "this finding shall constitute a finding that the custody [with the nonparent] is in the best interest of the child and that parental custody would be detrimental to the child absent a showing by a preponderance of the evidence to the contrary."
Thus, in grandarent contests with parents over custody, they are going to lose unless the grandparent, over a substantial time period (defined by the age of the child), become a de facto parent. This often happens where children are left in the care of a grandparent for many months or more, while the custodial parent is away.
Protect your grandchildren!
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| August 14, 2009 |
| How does my sister get CUSTODY of her GRANDSON? |
| Posted By Thurman Arnold |
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Q. My Neice has a 1yr old son. She is always gone on drugs and alcohol. Her mother is basically in control of the boy. She cares for him 24/7, takes him to doctors...my niece doesn't seem to care for him. I told my sister in law she needs to get custody of her grandchild ASAP. She is afraid if she calls they will take him away from her. He is in a loving home, has own room and all the care he needs. We would take him but I have 2 boys myself, no room. I know he would be in the "system" until she legally adopts him...what do we do?
Kathy.
Kathy:
There is only one choice in the absence of a pending paternity or other proceeding between the niece and the father: A guardianship proceeding. The niece's mother has no standing to file any other type of action; however, if another action is pending (again, a dissolution or a paternity action between the bio-parents, for instance) your sister can seek custody pursuant to Family Code section 3041, which deals with custody to nonparents such as grandparents, by applying to be joined into those proceedings. Your sister in that case would be presumed to be the more appropriate custodian of the boy IF she can establish a stable placement exists with her and that she has "assumed, on a day-to-day basis, the role of his ... parent, fulfilling both the child's physical needs and the child's psychological needs for care and affection, and who has assumed that role for a substantial period of time."
The last portion is critical. If the child's mother gets her act together, or pretends to, its a bit close whether a one year period will satisfy a judge (has the situation been the same since birth?). Also, I would want to know whether the child's mother lives in your sister's house or has just parked the child there. If the former, it will be tougher.
If your sister is in control now and the child is protected, she should consult an attorney immediately so that she makes the right moves in case the time comes for her to take action. Consulting a qualified custody lawyer for advice now is a smart move.
Please see this link to nonparent custody issues. Custody of grandchildren is a specialized family law practice area.
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